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“Sis” Receives 2023 Coach’s Award

August 25, 2023

In 2009, Gold Arrow Camp lost a dear friend. Ken “Coach” Baker (March 10, 1951 – April 5, 2009) worked at GAC as Camp Assistant Director and Director from 1981-1992 and had a huge, positive impact on many of us who are still here at camp today. Ken was instrumental in helping Sunshine purchase Gold Arrow from Jeanie Vezie in 1989, and mentored Sunshine, Monkey, Woody, Chelster, Tigger, Junior, Trapper, and many other GAC staff during their early years working at camp. [caption id="attachment_1912" align="alignleft" width="364"] Ken “Coach” Baker, Jeanie Vezie and Sunshine in 1989[/caption] Ken had an amazing way of making even mundane tasks like picking up trash and painting buildings feel monumentally important. He had a way of clapping his hands together and giving a pep talk that got everyone fired up to do their jobs well. Ken had a near-constant smile on his face and took every challenge that came his way in stride. We all knew we could go to him with any problem and he would help us figure out how to fix it. To honor Ken, in 2009 we established “Coach’s Award.” This award has been given each year since to a leader at camp, nominated by his/her peers, who motivates others through positive leadership and encouraging words and exemplifies Ken “Coach” Baker’s dedication to GAC’s vision. To select each year’s recipient, we ask the entire staff to complete a nomination form, where they put the name of one person whom ... Read more

Ask Questions

August 17, 2023

[embed]https://youtu.be/jFPBEXokX40[/embed] At camp, we spend a lot of time getting to know each other around the campfire, at meals, and while walking around camp. Many campers who were strangers to each other when they arrived at camp report feeling even closer to the cabin mates they've only known for a few weeks than they feel to school friends they've known for years. Why is that? One of the reasons is that they've had a lot of time to talk with each other. All those conversations help campers build strong friendships. One friendship skill we practice at camp is learning to ask questions, to listen well using active listening skills, and to ask follow up questions rather than interjecting our stories and ideas right away. Questions help keep a conversation flowing and help us get to know others better. Here's Sunshine talking about why this is an important social skill our kids need to practice:   Download our camp posters to use at home!

What do people most like to talk about?

You may think the answer is something very specific - like sports or a favorite video game or TV show. It's likely that when I asked that question you thought about what you most like to talk about. It's true that people really enjoy talking about things they're interested in. And what they're most interested in ... Read more

Today’s Friendship Tip: Find Your Best Calm Down Strategy

Today at Morning Assembly, we talked about the important skill of learning to "unflip our lids" by figuring out our go-to calm down strategies for when we're feeling irritated, frustrated, annoyed, or angry with our friends. We talked about how it's important to learn how to "unflip our lids" when we're upset.

Flipping Your Lid

We talked with campers about how sometimes we "Flip our Lids" and how being a good friend to others means learning good strategies for calming ourselves down so that we can interact with our friends in ways that build up - not tear down - our friendships. We talked about how when our lids are flipped, our thinking brain isn't in charge and we're being led by our big feelings. When our lids are flipped, we often say or do things that make our friends feel bad and that we later regret. We shared our brief summary of Dr. Dan Siegel's Hand Brain Model with campers: And we've shared this poster with campers so they can see a visual about a flipped verses unflipped brain.

Calm Down Strategies

We then had campers share their favorite calm-down strategies, and they had so many! We also shared this poster with more ideas: