Our vision at GAC is to create a happier world, one camper at a time. Each summer, we focus on building positive habits and character traits for a thriving life while having fun, making friends, and growing.
We also choose a specific character trait or skill that leads to a happier life. This summer, with our summer theme of “Crank Up the Thanks,” we’re focusing on building our gratitude!
“In positive psychology research, gratitude is strongly and consistently associated with greater happiness. Gratitude helps people feel more positive emotions, relish good experiences, improve their health, deal with adversity, and build strong relationships.”
–Giving Thanks Can Make You Happier, Harvard Health
Over the past 14 years, we’ve covered a variety of character traits and social skills that lead to better well-being. We’ve focused on kindness, friendship, giving, resilience, positivity, and encouraging others. Choosing Kindness, Count on Me, Building Empathy, and Try Something New have been our most recent Summer Themes.
Adults who are thankful for what they have are happier than those who are constantly in the entitled state of reaching for the ever-elusive “more.” According to Christine Carter, PhD, “Studies of adults and college students show positive outcomes from consciously practicing gratitude. My own experience with children has been that they become kinder, more appreciative, more enthusiastic and just generally happier.”
Want to start “cranking up the thanks” at home this spring?
Having a daily family sharing practice is a great tool for building connection. Sharing one (or more) things we’re grateful for not only makes for a positive conversation but also helps us each – individually – grow our gratitude. Sharing about what we’re grateful for can be at dinner, on the car ride to school, at bedtime, or whatever time works best with your family’s schedule.
Some kind of positive daily sharing can improve your family’s positivity quotient. Martin Seligman did a remarkable study on the impact of a simple gratitude practice. He found that depressed patients improved their outlook significantly in just a few months by writing down three good things from their day. When I learned of the benefits of this simple practice, we switched our family’s nightly sharing from “Highs and Lows” of the day to “Three Good Things,” focusing our minds on the positive.
When your family members know that sharing three good things is a nightly ritual, they’ll start noticing more of the good things that are happening. Even a day that has had some bad stuff happen also has some good stuff. By having a time each day when you and your kids share one or more “highs” or good things from their day, your brains will eventually become more aware of the positive things.
–excerpt from Happy Campers: 9 Summer Camp Secrets for Raising Kids Who Become Thriving Adults)
There are so many ways to build up our gratitude muscles, and helping our kids learn to be more grateful people can have a life-long positive impact.
Here’s to promoting an attitude of gratitude this summer and all year long!
Happy Campers: 9 Summer Camp Secrets for Raising Kids Who Become Thriving Adults
Ep. 63: Growing Gratitude with Sara Kuljis | Sunshine Parenting
Ep. 101: Entitlemania with Richard Watts | Sunshine Parenting
Ep. 11: The Opposite of Spoiled with Ron Lieber | Sunshine Parenting